Faster + Harder = Better?

Faster + Harder = Better?

My partner and I recently had a discussion about this topic. I realized the cultural bias is that sex is better when you are doing it faster and harder, but is this really the case? We sat down to talk about it and I thought I’d share.

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The Intimacy of Making Music

The Intimacy of Making Music

So I was recently inspired to write about the intimate act of making music. When people make music together, they really have to listen and be present to each other in an intimate way.

I recently attended a phenomenal concert, where the musicians were improvising with each other, leading and following in a seamless display of artistry and I would have to call it respect.

No one musician was overpowering, no one was always taking the lead, no one felt unseen or unheard, they moved together in a breathtaking display of what humans are capable of when we really work together.


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