Have you had the experience of a really stressful day? Most of us have. How did that make you feel? I’ll bet it didn’t make you feel all warm and fuzzy with your loved ones.Read More
Apologies for the bad rhyme, but this struck me as true on many levels. In our personal lives, and even in whole societies, we have trained ourselves not to feel. It could almost be said that modern culture is ‘narcissistic’ in that we have made such a complete split between mind and body, or thinking and feeling.Read More
The ability to explore new territory requires a sense of safety in yourself
Many of us have a desire to be open-minded, curious and to explore new things. We are generally born into the world this way. We reach out with our hands and lips almost the moment we arrive.Read More
There has recently been a surge in interest in the topic of ‘Empaths’ and ‘Highly Sensitive People’ or HSP’s as they are commonly known. It seems that either we are evolving in this direction as a species, or more of us are coming out of the closet.Read More
Do you try and control yourself or do you attempt to control your environment?
If there is one issue that is almost universal, it is this desire to be in control. Most of us on some level believe that control is the key to mastering our life.Read More
Even Sex educators can have their flaws!
I found this out while teaching a course recently where I made the mistake of assuming I understood someone’s gender, but found out later, I really didn’t!Read More
So it seems that there is another myth to be looked at around relationships and love. The idea that there is one right person for us out there somewhere in the world, and we just have to find them. According to Dan Savage, the relationship and sex columnist, this is…Read More
I have spoken to many men and many of them have spoken about the fears and insecurities around not being able to maintain an erection. They worry about not pleasing their partners, not seeming to be ‘man enough’, afraid their ability to be intimate might be going downhill as they age.Read More