Ravish me, sir!

Ravish me, sir!

If there is one thing that makes romance novels super hot, it’s the idea of being ravished. I mean, it helps that all the heroes in the books are square-jawed, broad shouldered and still have all their hair. But still, having a man sweep you off your feet and have his way with you, while you moan and writhe in ecstasy, makes for compelling reading.

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Feel the deal, the way to heal

Feel the deal, the way to heal

Apologies for the bad rhyme, but this struck me as true on many levels. In our personal lives, and even in whole societies, we have trained ourselves not to feel. It could almost be said that modern culture is ‘narcissistic’ in that we have made such a complete split between mind and body, or thinking and feeling.

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Willingness to explore requires a sense of safety in the body

Willingness to explore requires a sense of safety in the body

The ability to explore new territory requires a sense of safety in yourself

Many of us have a desire to be open-minded, curious and to explore new things. We are generally born into the world this way. We reach out with our hands and lips almost the moment we arrive.

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The Myth of ‘The One’

The Myth of ‘The One’

So it seems that there is another myth to be looked at around relationships and love. The idea that there is one right person for us out there somewhere in the world, and we just have to find them. According to Dan Savage, the relationship and sex columnist, this is…

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How important is it to stay hard?

How important is it to stay hard?

I have spoken to many men and many of them have spoken about the fears and insecurities around not being able to maintain an erection. They worry about not pleasing their partners, not seeming to be ‘man enough’, afraid their ability to be intimate might be going downhill as they age.

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